Is the Pursuit of Happiness Valid or Merely Self-Serving?

A college professor who attended one of my lectures labeled the pursuit of happiness trivial, self-indulgent and self-serving. I don’t know what his experiences may have been but I have noted that when people are happy, they are much more loving, supportive and available to themselves and to those they touch. However, most ‘reasonable’ people might argue that dealing with poverty, sickness, war and nuclear disarmament should certainly take precedence over a person’s concern for individual happiness. The implication is that happiness, as the professor claimed, is not only self-serving but limited in impact and therefore not worthy of elevated status.
And yet, the founding fathers of our own government viewed the subject so significant that they included the ‘pursuit of happiness’ as an inalienable right in the Declaration of Independence. Beyond memorizing that document and those words as students, few of us, if any, studied the subject of happiness as attentively as we did language arts, mathematics, social studies and science. We never learned to acknowledge such a focus as truly valid or valuable. Although schools offer a vast array of subject areas for study (literature, history, psychology, biology, business administration, medical science, ecology, astrophysics, nautical engineering), no primary school, high school or university offers courses in the pursuit of happiness. No wonder we have learned to disregard the subject or ‘put it aside’ for what we conclude to be more immediate and significant concerns.
The irony is that for ourselves individually and for the planet collectively there perhaps is no more pressing issue than personal happiness. To be happy (and all that ‘happy’ implies – comfortable, loving, accepting, nonjudgemental, joyful, at peace with oneself) might in fact be the most pertinent prescription for dealing with what most of us are concerned with on a global, familial, and personal basis.
So often we strive to change the world around us by changing others. We focus on external solutions to problems which can appear so overwhelming and complex that any reasonable hope of success seems remote. ‘What can I do?’ we ask ourselves in despair. ‘I’m just one person.’
Have we overlooked the most obvious and achievable approach to our problems even though at first it might appear simplistic – to be happy and loving?
If just one person changed, becomes happier, touches another with a more loving and peaceful hand, then the world has, indeed, become a more peaceful place. If each of us acknowledged him- or herself as one entity in an interlocking network of interactions (as lover, parent, friend, child, sibling, coworker, citizen), then, like the stones dropped into a pond, our evolution will cause countless ripples. Our capacity to change enables us to make a truly profound difference in the world.

– Happiness Is A Choice by Barry Neil Kaufman

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4 Responses to

  1. padme says:

    Excellent blog post, SG…it gives me a lot to think about.I hope you have a good weekend…I hope your able to pop by and say hi during the party tommorow. I’ve got a big night cumming up. :)BIG HUGS and blows you a lil kissTake care, dear friend~padme

  2. Shay says:

    WHat a shame about the prof, maybe he isnt’ very happy or doesn’t think he (or anyone else) deserves to be happy?Or maybe he just felt like being difficult. Well, there’s no reason why the rest of us can’t persue our own happiness. As you said. ^_^

  3. V says:

    Hey you, it’s V here. Man, you are so talented at writing – I wish! Thank you for the reminders through your writing, it helps. Just thought that I would let you know that DF is actaully 25, not 26 – but know that I appreciate that he’s on here and that you think that he’s funny! So do I. Love you to Atoms darling. YAY, brazillian wax time!

  4. ImOnlyAMan says:

    Thank you for an excellent quote SG! Happiness is the way to go, in every area of a persons life I think. I mean, think of it. If all there was to look forward to in a persons future, was dreariness and boredom, meaning, if dreariness and boredom were in our nature as human beings, such that, dreariness and boredom is the “built-in” goal of every human being it would mean that the world would be a terrible place, because we would do things on purpose to bring us dreariness and sadness. In such a world anyone showing happiness would be chastized and put down by most people. Thats like living in a self made mental dictatorship.Mankind has progressed, (albeit slowly) for thousands of years, and we have far more opportunity to be happy today than people in the past. For me it implies that happiness is our “built-in” goal, (not dreariness) it is what we need to truly live as fulfilled human beings.ImOnlyAMAn

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